What do big trees, your dreams, and buff dudes have in common?
Yesterday at the gym, I was happily bench pressing my own weight (~150lbs), when I glanced over at the guy next to me...
He wasn't much bigger than me.
But a quick calculation of the weight plates... he was benching more than 250 pounds. And making it look startlingly easy.
Then he came up to me, and asked me how I had gotten so ripped.
Haha, just kidding! He asked me to spot him.
And then put on some more weight plates.
When he finished 5 reps of 295lbs without any assistance from me, I felt inspired to ask:
"How long did it take you to lift this much?"
6 years. ("But I take a couple months off every now and then", he clarified)
I've been lifting weights on and off for 20 years.
What's the difference?
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CONSISTENT PROGRESSION ![]()
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Showing up week after week, with a PROGRESSION in mind, a DIRECTION, is key.
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This is the wood element in Chinese medicine, it is growth and persistence.
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It's what our gym friend needed to bench 290lbs.
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And it's what you need to achieve your dreams.
It usually takes years.
There's that quote "we usually overestimate what we can achieve in 1 year, and underestimate what we can achieve in 3".
There's also the quote:
"A journey of 1,000 miles begins with the first step."
So what is it for you?
Consider sectors of life: financial, spiritual, creative, health, relationships, etc.
If you could show up consistently and make outrageous progress on something, what would it be?