On how we speak to those in our lives: "The language of the soul always enhances relationships".

My coach said that to me last week.

The language of the soul... what that means to me is if I really get still, tune in with myself, and access some deeper or more "global" part that I've learned to call "my soul". Call it higher self, doesn't matter.

When I speak from this place, it enhances relationships.

When my language - or even my tone of voice - does not create harmony or enhance relationships, I can be sure that I'm not speaking from a place of my deepest truth.

So that's a simple barometer.

Is what I'm saying, or is my tone of voice, drawing love towards me or pushing it away?

If it's the latter, time to take a pause, connect with the soul! Speak from there. Enhance relationships.

At the end of the day, the quality of our relationships is a huge factor in happiness, fulfillment, and meaning.

What are your approaches to using your voice to create closeness in relationships?